永居國外的大家,如何解決父母照料的問題 - 日本
By Yedda
at 2022-05-12T17:05
at 2022-05-12T17:05
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去年拿到永住權後開始思考這個問題
據我所知,除非在特殊情形下(沒其他兄弟+父母其中一方過世)
即便外國人持有永住or歸化,都沒有辦法讓父母在日本永居,依親基本僅止於配偶
還年輕的時候可以請父母偶爾來住個一兩個月,又或是等GW休假時回台灣
但人老了勢必難以應付頻繁搭機,很難想像父母80歲了還常常飛來飛去long stay
即使GW/obon/過年每年都回去,一年大概見面三次左右
在這裡成家立業後也不太可能長期休假就拖全家回台灣,勢必更難以見面。
即便付錢了事 cover台灣所有看護費用,父母需要的時候無法給予陪伴,甚至最後一面也
許來不及見到
以日本的pay,我相信有能力一邊養家一邊cover看護費用的絕對是少數...
除了丟包給兄弟或放他們自生自滅以外,有其他解決方法嗎?
除了文化民情適應不了,這應該是很多人選擇回台的理由QQ
雖然父母沒說什麼,站在他們立場來看辛苦栽培到大,出國後就像丟了小孩一樣,感覺很
抱歉
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據我所知,除非在特殊情形下(沒其他兄弟+父母其中一方過世)
即便外國人持有永住or歸化,都沒有辦法讓父母在日本永居,依親基本僅止於配偶
還年輕的時候可以請父母偶爾來住個一兩個月,又或是等GW休假時回台灣
但人老了勢必難以應付頻繁搭機,很難想像父母80歲了還常常飛來飛去long stay
即使GW/obon/過年每年都回去,一年大概見面三次左右
在這裡成家立業後也不太可能長期休假就拖全家回台灣,勢必更難以見面。
即便付錢了事 cover台灣所有看護費用,父母需要的時候無法給予陪伴,甚至最後一面也
許來不及見到
以日本的pay,我相信有能力一邊養家一邊cover看護費用的絕對是少數...
除了丟包給兄弟或放他們自生自滅以外,有其他解決方法嗎?
除了文化民情適應不了,這應該是很多人選擇回台的理由QQ
雖然父母沒說什麼,站在他們立場來看辛苦栽培到大,出國後就像丟了小孩一樣,感覺很
抱歉
--
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