台灣啊... - 文化差異
By Hedy
at 2008-10-19T02:15
at 2008-10-19T02:15
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我在國外住了十五年
剛回台灣也是超痛苦的 這邊看不順眼 那邊看不習慣
天天上街都提心吊膽 連包包都要背靠騎樓的那邊 (因為怕被搶)
覺得自己都快罹患被迫害妄想症了
可是
這種病要治癒其實很簡單
就是讓你知道什麼叫做真正不適合居住的國家...
過了四個月我就拖老天爺的福被送到中國大陸了
經歷了一堆打扮得花枝招展的妙齡少女當街吐痰
小孩還在穿開檔褲並且隨地大小便
旁邊的媽媽會隨時拿起手機對著手機裡的人歇斯底里的喊叫
等電梯的人會莫名的不停地按著按鈕 然後對著跳得太慢的數字發出嘖嘖聲或發脾氣
(我強烈的懷疑這是個嚴重罹患躁鬱症的民族)
帥氣的住院醫生跟我聊天聊到一半開始忘我的挖起鼻孔 (破滅啊~~~)
一群人一邊吃甘蔗(或一大片西瓜)一邊逛街 一邊走一邊吐渣
水果攤老闆娘要請我吃棗子 我推說還沒洗 他便用一個骯髒的水桶裡舀出的水沖沖
然後用五片指甲塞滿汙垢的手滿臉笑容的遞給我 我只好含淚吞下
常常到看得到有人在吵架 我從一開始的皺眉覺得怎麼當眾這麼丟臉地潑婦罵街
到評估只要覺得他們打起來的時候不要掃到我 就可以泰然的從他們面前走過
我還看過現代的地鐵站前面有一個媽媽跪在地上 身邊帶著兩個女兒
手上拿著一個 "賣女救父" 的字報 (真的 我沒唬爛!!)
台灣的保安總讓人有種安全感
但是這裡的報紙常常看到保安成群結隊的圍毆不順眼的人致死
(這還是受政府控制的媒體批露的數量)
...等等的令人瞋目結舌 發生在廣州最新商業區的事件
在七個月後我歷經磨練的回到台灣 只有五個字
這裡是天堂~~~~
現在我又回到了大陸
我覺得我已經住得很習慣了
不過我覺得最重要的是我給自己的一個心理建設
做為一個地球村的一員 尤其是曾經出過國的 要比別人更有國際觀
很多國家跟"已發展"國家相比雖然顯得很落後 (但是相信我 台灣真的很棒)
那是因為他們有他們的故事
(雖然我覺得中國這個號稱禮儀之邦的國家發展了五千年還是這種素質 有點沒用耶)
對於想到處旅遊的人來說
如果每到一個地方就要 "噁~~這裡我不喜歡.. 那裏我不習慣..."
那你就待在家裡就好了啊
如果可以 誰不想過好日子
如果可以裝高尚裝氣質 誰願意汲汲營營的去做一些看起來不優雅不從容的事
我想多了這層體諒 不管從哪裡回到台灣的人對台灣任何事情都可以看得很順眼
何況台灣的人情味真的是很可愛的
常常都會有很熱心的計程車司機跟我討論台灣的政治和隱憂
或是很興奮的跟我介紹景點
而且通常只要柔聲細氣的講 再多個笑容
臉再臭的商店老闆也會有點驚訝的對你擠出一個笑容
接著他的臉部線條就緩和多了
這時我就會覺得很滿足 (好啦我是無聊的人類)
總之我覺得
在國外的經驗使所有曾經旅居國外的人看到台灣的不足之處
這時應該要積極的想辦法改善這塊孕育我們的土地
無論是從公益 情感上的支持 樂捐
正確的女性觀念定義 (但是我覺得女生要受到尊重 首先就不要把自己當成花瓶)
甚至只是帶給別人微笑的習慣
都可以讓我們做比純幹譙更有意義的事
因為我們可以出國 是因為老天給了我們爸媽或我們自己這個機會
我們是因為受到了眷顧才有了這個機會
怎麼可以再拿這個機會去看不順眼沒有這些機會的人呢?
....好像越寫越劉墉了 @@
總之 大家要努力的愛台灣啦!!!!
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