Re: 有關異國戀情 - 文化差異

※ 引述《cloudysky (jen)》之銘言：
: 罵我) 男孩子在一個relationship裡面總是會希望自己是可以讓女生依靠的一方
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If you always think so, you will never got a white girl, particularly from
Europe.

: 當一個男生要跟一個講英文(或是別的文)的女生交往時, 如果他自己的英文不是
: 自己的母語的話, 可能也是會多多少少會害怕, 怕自己是不是會在女生面前出糗
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Indeed. Do you want to know why Taiwanese usually not confident to show off?
Remember when we were students at schools of every level,
there were really students could show off confidentially.
However, the teachers dislike this very much; if you keep quiet, you will be
fine; if you show off, you can get something in the next minutes.
Years and years past, significant number of people of this nation have lost
confidence even to speak their opinions nor to argue for their right.
When they are speaking, they watches the listeners' faces; they are trying
not to make the listeners unhappy (although the words must not make them
very happy...).

Language problem, certainly, makes it worse. I don't really think language
is really a problem, nevertheless. Have you watched an English film,
Love Actually? or a French film, The Russian Dolls. I am sure they will give
you some ideas.

To say love is not that difficult. However, if you have even never said
'Je t'aime' to a French girl, you cannot just give an excuse of bad French.

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