有必要對外籍學生這樣嗎 - 文化差異

最後一句有點偏激 呵呵

我相信你的經驗是很多留學生共有的經驗

可是不要忘記 其實他們骨子裡已經是美國人了

即使他們也許是第二代或是第三代移民

何不就把他們當老外看待就好?

交朋友是跨越種族國界的

何不依照個性性情 而不是國籍或種族來交朋友呢?

另外 為什麼你的英文不好

何況我相信也有一大票其他人當時懶得理你吧

為什麼期待同種族的人一定要對你有耐性?

美國的高中其實有點殘酷的...


我不是叫你要接受現實

而是說 與其浪費時間精力自怨自艾 或是 把這種情況歸咎於

"當亞洲人就是比不上白人 所以連當地的亞裔都很自卑 所以才不理我"

這樣子對你沒好處

不如先把這種想法放一邊 多去和對你好的人親近 告訴自己這世界的好人真多

對你比較好


也許我比較天真 但這樣想的我比較快樂





※ 引述《nancy75822 ()》之銘言：
: I can't type chinese here. just let you guys know ^^
: my experience was different, wheni first came to the U.S. the teachers or
: school faculties were very nice to me cuz they know how hard it is to
: study in a foreign country. but those Asian Americans are nothing nice like
: that, they wouldn't talk to me or hang out w me cuz i'm fob.
: (that was back in high school)
: 4 years later i saw those ppl in the college and they are a LOT nicer to me
: cuz i speak better english now, and they actually wanna invite me to
: thier events or parties. I asked those girls, why were you so rude to me
: when i first came here . I was away from home, helpless. none of yall provided
: any assistance, all you guys did just look at me weird and think i was not
: good enough to talk to you cuz my english sucked.
: I really don't need friends who are shallow and prejudicial.
: I think some asian AMERICANS hate fobs and they secretly hate how fobby their
: parents are and feel so ashamed of their accent.
: I know some girls who ONLY date white guys or hang out with white ppl.
: they think they are white, and they wanna be white.
: I think they should holocaust themselves if they really hate their own race.
: ※ 引述《catchpw (catchpw)》之銘言：
: : 不要說行政單位的辦事人員了
: : 在台灣,教授在課堂上也普遍對僑生外籍生優惠客氣很多
: : 很多外籍生中文不好
: : 老師就自動降低評分標準讓他們過
: : 或者允許他們用英文,甚至是日文寫考卷
: : 然後老師在自己請其他學生把他們的答案翻成中文
: : 老師在替他們評分
: : 想想我們在國外念書
: : 要是英文不夠好
: : 老師會體諒嗎
: : 會考量我們母語非英文而給我們高分嗎
: : 有可能接受我們用中文寫報告寫考卷嗎
: : 根本是不可能的事情
: : 客氣一點的,看你英文寫的不夠好,講的不夠好
: : 給你一個稍微低一點的分數
: : 狠一點的直接丟回來
: : 叫你去writing center全部重改
: : 常常覺得僑生外籍生在台灣念書真是一件幸福的事情

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